It's not about me...
Seeing that we all have been programmed since birth that being selfish is the primary way to succeed in life, my rational is probably not the most popular. I have always been the type of person who tends to look deep into things. I guess you could call me Miss Analyzation. I'm always searching for the deeper meaning behind everything because I feel that everything happens for a reason; God knows that He's doing eventhough it might sometimes seem like complete chaos to us.
When dealing with the opposite sex, many issues can potentially arise. Especially when dealing with a Miss Analyzation and a guy who seems to 'go with the flow.' The girl is always trying to figure out what exactly is her purpose in the situation: is this a fling, relationship, or just fun and games? And of course, the guy cannot give a straight answer because he has not taken the time to figure out what exactly he wants out of life anyway. So, everything is up in the air, until the girl is put in a situation where if she is to remain in the chaos, she will ultimately be forced to compromise herself. But, seeing that that is rule #1 in the girl's book: "I will not compromise myself for anyone," the question is, "What will the next chapter bring?"
So, the guy must do what he feels is best and remove himself from the situation (he does not want to be the one held at fault for Miss Analyzation's contemplation of compromise). And although this might seem to be a burden lifted off her shoulders, the poor girl feels as if her heart has been broken in two. She just doesn't understand how so much emphasis could be placed on what society deems as 'right' and wonders will there ever be a day when her Prince will find her and accept her values as being as precious as pure gold. She just wants to give her love and not worry about the love she so desires being stripped away. So, her head hangs low for a season.
But God has a way of turning things around. If not for Miss Analyzation, then for the guy. As time passes, communication ends between the girl and the guy, until one day Miss Analyzation realizes that she has some information that will change the guy's life in a positive manner. When she contacts the guy, he states that he was actually praying for that type of news. After some time, the guy's life completely turns around in his favor (nothing seemed to be going right for him during that year's worth of time). But now, when listening to his voice via the telephone, Miss Analyzation can hear a smile through his words. She is happy for the guy.
Whether we see it or not, God may be using what you are going through right now, not completely for your favor, but so that someone else will walk into a wondrous blessing in the future. And believe, that when seeing how awesome God is to allow you to be used in His blessing business, your outlook on life will surely change for the better.
So, Miss Analyzation continues to wait, not so much for selfish reasons, but for what God has in store through His divine plan. Who knows what's going to happen next. But until then, she will be W8ingPatiently.....
When dealing with the opposite sex, many issues can potentially arise. Especially when dealing with a Miss Analyzation and a guy who seems to 'go with the flow.' The girl is always trying to figure out what exactly is her purpose in the situation: is this a fling, relationship, or just fun and games? And of course, the guy cannot give a straight answer because he has not taken the time to figure out what exactly he wants out of life anyway. So, everything is up in the air, until the girl is put in a situation where if she is to remain in the chaos, she will ultimately be forced to compromise herself. But, seeing that that is rule #1 in the girl's book: "I will not compromise myself for anyone," the question is, "What will the next chapter bring?"
So, the guy must do what he feels is best and remove himself from the situation (he does not want to be the one held at fault for Miss Analyzation's contemplation of compromise). And although this might seem to be a burden lifted off her shoulders, the poor girl feels as if her heart has been broken in two. She just doesn't understand how so much emphasis could be placed on what society deems as 'right' and wonders will there ever be a day when her Prince will find her and accept her values as being as precious as pure gold. She just wants to give her love and not worry about the love she so desires being stripped away. So, her head hangs low for a season.
But God has a way of turning things around. If not for Miss Analyzation, then for the guy. As time passes, communication ends between the girl and the guy, until one day Miss Analyzation realizes that she has some information that will change the guy's life in a positive manner. When she contacts the guy, he states that he was actually praying for that type of news. After some time, the guy's life completely turns around in his favor (nothing seemed to be going right for him during that year's worth of time). But now, when listening to his voice via the telephone, Miss Analyzation can hear a smile through his words. She is happy for the guy.
Whether we see it or not, God may be using what you are going through right now, not completely for your favor, but so that someone else will walk into a wondrous blessing in the future. And believe, that when seeing how awesome God is to allow you to be used in His blessing business, your outlook on life will surely change for the better.
So, Miss Analyzation continues to wait, not so much for selfish reasons, but for what God has in store through His divine plan. Who knows what's going to happen next. But until then, she will be W8ingPatiently.....
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