Headache (cont.)...
So, Richard calls me up about ten minutes before we're supposed to meet up at the pool bar and tells me that "we're" (who does 'we' entail?) going to stay in and not go out because the roads are bad (it's snowing). He continues to ask me if I'm going and if it were okay with me if he didn't come and assures me that we should try to do it again sometime. I tell him that it's fine and wish him a good night indoors while I continue to still follow through with my plans.
About thirty minutes later I'm online and he IMs me asking me if I'm still going out and I tell him yeah. He then tells me that I really should stay in because of the weather, and I tell him it's fine and that I'm still going to go out with my friends. He then asks me will I still play pool with him sometime. And I tell him, "maybe." Apparently I hurt his feelings on that one and I told him 'maybe' does not mean no. And he responded that 'maybe' does not mean yes either. And I responded in agreement with that. I proceed to tell him that I might even spend the night at someone else's house just to fool with his head and he questions whose house would I spend the night at. And I continue to make comments that'll cause some pondering on his end. But in the end I tell him that I'm just kidding around and then say, "Or am I?" It's kind of fun to play games, eventhough I really hate them. So, eventually he says that he's going to bed early and tells me to have fun and be safe. And I tell him that I will.
Well, I ended up going out with three friends of mine. We ended up just driving around town, stopping by a drive thru for some chicken nuggets that my one friend was craving, then we went to a type of sports bar and hung out a bit and laughed a lot. Although the weather was not all that great, the comfortable atmosphere kept me warm. All in all, I had a decent evening and it momentarily kept my mind off of the opposite sex.
I have a feeling that it's not over (a conversation is probably going to have to be had because clearly, Richard is probably content with the way things are going, feels that everything fine- that there is no problem, and considers it okay to just keep me around for hanging out whenever he's not investing any time or energy on other females). Maybe I just need to stop making assumptions. I guess I really just need to hear his side, if I'll ever have the chance to get that opportunity to be one-on-one.
About thirty minutes later I'm online and he IMs me asking me if I'm still going out and I tell him yeah. He then tells me that I really should stay in because of the weather, and I tell him it's fine and that I'm still going to go out with my friends. He then asks me will I still play pool with him sometime. And I tell him, "maybe." Apparently I hurt his feelings on that one and I told him 'maybe' does not mean no. And he responded that 'maybe' does not mean yes either. And I responded in agreement with that. I proceed to tell him that I might even spend the night at someone else's house just to fool with his head and he questions whose house would I spend the night at. And I continue to make comments that'll cause some pondering on his end. But in the end I tell him that I'm just kidding around and then say, "Or am I?" It's kind of fun to play games, eventhough I really hate them. So, eventually he says that he's going to bed early and tells me to have fun and be safe. And I tell him that I will.
Well, I ended up going out with three friends of mine. We ended up just driving around town, stopping by a drive thru for some chicken nuggets that my one friend was craving, then we went to a type of sports bar and hung out a bit and laughed a lot. Although the weather was not all that great, the comfortable atmosphere kept me warm. All in all, I had a decent evening and it momentarily kept my mind off of the opposite sex.
I have a feeling that it's not over (a conversation is probably going to have to be had because clearly, Richard is probably content with the way things are going, feels that everything fine- that there is no problem, and considers it okay to just keep me around for hanging out whenever he's not investing any time or energy on other females). Maybe I just need to stop making assumptions. I guess I really just need to hear his side, if I'll ever have the chance to get that opportunity to be one-on-one.
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